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Self-Compassion for Social Anxiety

A shame-focused self-compassion writing intervention

A free, evidence-based writing intervention for individuals experiencing high levels of social anxiety and shame. Through guided exercises in mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness, you will learn to respond to shame with self-compassion.

How to Use This Intervention
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Stage 1 — Complete twice Learn about shame and self-compassion, then practice mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness through guided writing.
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Stage 2 — Complete three times Address fears of self-compassion, deepen your practice, and create a personal self-compassion phrase.
15–20 minutes per session
📅 2–3 days between sessions, over two weeks
🕯 Find a quiet, private space free from distractions
What has the research shown?

In a randomized controlled study, this intervention significantly reduced shame and social anxiety while increasing self-compassion, with gains maintained at one-month follow-up.

All your responses stay on your device. Nothing is sent to any server.

Created by Selen Amado Sokullu, MA